Meredith & Hunter | November 17, 2018

Randi Fracassi

“I swear I couldn’t love you more than what I do right now, and yet I know I will tomorrow.”

When I first met Meredith and Hunter for coffee, I knew from the moment that it was going to be a perfect fit. They’re quirky, fun personalities were going to shine so bright on their wedding day, and they were committed to a fun, beautiful event that was a direct reflection of their joyful and selfless personalities. You could feel how much they cared for and valued what they had to say when talking with them — the way Hunter’s eyes light up and the ear to ear smile on Meredith’s face tells you everything you need to know about how much they love each other. It was such a pleasure to coordinate their wedding day at the LSU AgCenter and Botanical Gardens!


Morgan & Jeremy | June 16, 2018

Randi Fracassi

A margarita machine.

The quaintest church in the South.

And two people who truly, deeply, and without a doubt love each other.

Y’all know Mr. and Mrs. Martinez’s wedding way was lit.

You know that phrase about how when you talk about someone, your face lights up? Imagine beams of light coming from Jeremy when he talks about Morgan. Or the grin that turns into a full on ear-to-ear smile that fills up Morgan’s entire face. Yeah, it was — and is — magic.


Fantastic Vendors

Ceremony Venue

St. Andrew’s Episcopal

Clinton, LA


Poppy Lane Events


D and V Entertainment


Billy Heroman’s Florist

Hair and Makeup

Vivace Cosmetics


Angela Janette Photography

Reception Venue

Private Residence


Doug Olinde Rentals

Abigail and Robert | July 14, 2018

Randi Fracassi

In that still and settled place There’s nobody but you

You’re where I breathe by oxygen You’re where I see my view

And when the world feels full of noise My heart know what do do

It find that still and settled place

And dances there with you.

Edward Monkton, “That Still and Settled Place”

Candlelight and personal touches filled the Baton Rouge Country Club on Robert and Abby’s wedding day, with their favorite coffee as favors and an entire staircase lit up with floating candles. Soft, bright, and full of laughter, their day was surrounded by family and friends, and what a dream it was to coordinate for them!


Stephani & Patrick | June 9, 2018

Randi Fracassi

I give my hand to you with all my heart
I can't wait to live my life with you I can't wait to start
You and I will never be apart
My dreams came true because of you.

When Stephani and Patrick met, it wasn't quite love at first sight. It was, however, a little prick of awareness, a little "Aha, there you are" after meeting each other a few times, and then a "Let's do forever". Chic, classic, and so stylish, the Mathia's are a good time loving couple with the best group of family and friends. Stephani and Pat, it was such an honor and a pleasure to make sure that your wedding day was everything you dreamed it would be!


Our Vendors

Beauty: Verde Beauty Studio

Bridal Apparel: Moliere Bridal

Bridal Shoes: Badgley Mischka

Candle and Lighting: Luminous Events

Ceremony Venue: Loews Hotel

Coordination: Poppy Lane Events

DJ: Countdown Sound and Productions

Floral: Herbivore Floral Designs

Grooms Apparel: Men’s Warehouse

Second Line Band: Lagniappe Brass Band

Photography: Studio Tran

Reception Venue: The Chicory

Lindsey & Daniel | May 19, 2018

Randi Fracassi

"I love you, I do -- you have my word. 
"You have all my words." -- Lang Leave

Yeah. I can't sum up how special it was to plan Lindsey and Daniel's wedding day at New Orleans City Park, where they laughed, cried, and started the newest chapter of the wild story that is there's. Dating long distance, moving across the country, and standing by each other through thick and thin, these two had smiles on their faces the entire season of their engagement, and it was beyond beautiful to see it all come together for them. 


Our Amazing Vendors

Baked Goods: Swiss Confectionery, Inc.
Beauty: Verde Beauty Studio
Bridal Apparel: Patsy's, A Bridal Boutique
DJ: X-Pert Productions, LLC
Floral Design: Hummingbird Floral Studio
Furniture Rentals: Lovegood - Wedding and Event Rentals and Event Rental
Invitation Calligraphy: Nib & Flow
Lighting Design: Firefly Ambiance Candles & Decor
Linens: Nuage Designs, Inc. and Premier Table Linens
Planning: Poppy Lane Events
Photography: Wild Wonder Photography
Signage: Blooming Chalk
Venue: New Orleans City Park

Creating a Wedding Budget: How to Stay on Track, Get Money, and Not go Crazy

Randi Fracassi

Hello, hello! Whew! We’re just coming back from our trip to Michigan for some much needed rest and relaxation,  and per our Instagram poll, we’re sharing with you our tips and how-to’s on budgeting for your wedding day. This is a near and dear topic to us as planners, as creating a budget for your event is the most important factor in the planning process: without an established budget, the entire planning process will lack a level of control and consistency (that is, you will always be stressed about the costs piling up). We’ll be talking more so on how to create a budget versus what you can do to save money or get costs down, but we’ll be sharing our tips on that as well.

Photography by Wild Wonder Photography, Floral by Hummingbird Floral Studio

Photography by Wild Wonder Photography, Floral by Hummingbird Floral Studio

First and foremost, reach out to vendors. Might sound crazy, right? The fact of the matter is, weddings and parties are expensive. Having the Instagram worthy and blog published events you see generally are quite the investment, and above all else, educating yourself on the costs and investments you’re going to be making will go a long way in determining what is reasonable, overpriced, or too good to be true. Don’t be afraid to ask close friends and family about what they spent on various vendors, or ask for referrals, or ask that vendor you see in a Facebook ad what their average client spends on their services.

Because friends, when you’ve already given yourself hard numbers to follow before reaching out to vendors, you’ll more than likely fall over in shock in your seat. When you get a response back saying that the greenery installation along a mantle is going to be $1500, and that’s what you thought your whole floral budget would be, it’s a hard pill to swallow. Or when the venue you’ve been dying over Instagram starts at $75 per person with a minimum of 150 guests (and that’s not including bar), it causes a cold sweat to break out. Educate yourself on your region’s averages, or your dream vendor’s average, and go from there.

After your initial research, determine what is important to you for your wedding. Sit down with your better half, and put it into writing what is important, whether it's the venue versus the date, a certain photographer or more so a style of photography, food, entertainment, invitations. Prioritize where you want the money invested from your wedding, and then get ballpark quotes from those vendorsIt’s not a quite a priority at this time to say you need X, Y, and Z, but by getting estimates that may be a little higher than what they will be in actuality will lessen sticker-shock and prepare you for worst case scenarios.

Determine who is funding what. This is a must have conversation with parents or anyone who has said they would like to contribute to the wedding. It is best to be blunt, and keep a written record of exact amounts or what vendors they are contributing to. Doing this will be awkward, without a doubt, but trust me when I say that making sure you keep everyone accountable for everything they commit to in the long run will be better for relationships with family members. Share what you have already collected from your research earlier, and be honest as to what costs are going to be for those vendors. Don’t be afraid to share that you would rather have this baker over another, or this time of year at a venue because it’s a different cost.

After this series of chats and talks, you’re going to feel the need to hard-core stick to your budget. I’m going to drop a bomb here, so brace yourself: don’t do it.

Wait, what?

By forcing yourself to stick to a number, you’re going to be overwhelmed and find yourself cutting costs from unnecessary avenues (booking your photographer for 7 hours versus 8, renting table overlays versus proper cloths, etc). Setting yourself up to have leeway, spending between (for example) $30-35,000 versus just $30,000 without exception will give breathing room (and, referring back to those ballpark quotes you got form the beginning, prepare yourself for the investment of weddings and help with the unexpected costs).

Now that there is an understanding of what the important aspects of your wedding are going to cost, divide and conquer the rest of the budget with other costs. This is where an Excel sheet is key! You can also keep track in your wedding binder, or have your wedding planner keep track of your budget for you. I would also be sure to include when payments have been applied and when payments are due (and making sure your phone, planner, or agenda have it noted when these payments are due in order to avoid contract cancellations). More and more vendors are attaching late fees for payments not made on time – avoid the stress of doubling your bill with your team by sending a reminder several weeks before a payment is due.

So friends, creating a budget for your wedding educate yourself about the industry. Don’t be afraid to ask questions, and while you hold yourself accountable to making sure things get done, stay true to yourself and what YOU want.  Planning a wedding can be stressful and overwhelming with the details and questions and dealing with family and friends as it is, and anything regarding money is bound to compound those stresses. By creating a budget and giving yourself the grace to have a range to stay within, you’ll be saving yourself the headache and worry of everything relating to money.

Happy planning,



Allison & Donovan | May 13, 2018

Randi Fracassi

Over here, we're firm believers that home isn't a place: it's a feeling in our chest, down to our soul. It's a sense of calm and excitement all at once, a wild part soothed and yet lit up with vivacious and infectious spirit.

And y'all, what a beautiful thing it is to see a couple who have found home in each other. That support and challenge each other, and are shelters for each other's hearts. Allison and Donovan's celebration with their closest friends and family was truly wonderful, and we're so thankful we worked with them and their team of vendors to make their day so perfect. 


Allison & Phillip | March 17, 2018

Randi Fracassi

“Now at last they were beginning Chapter One of the Great Story which no one on earth has read: which goes on for ever: in which every chapter is better than the one before.” -- C. S. Lewis

Needless to say, Allison's favorite quote is a perfect reflection of her and Philip's wedding. Allison was a seasoned bartender at a local restaurant here in Baton Rouge when Philip was hired in June 2013, and the connection was immediate and electric. The rest, as they say, is history. 



Our Amazing Team

Ceremony and Reception Venue: Shaw Center for the Arts

Catering: Mansurs On The Boulevard

Coordination: Poppy Lane Events

Baked Goods: Gambino's Bakery

Bridal Apparel: Maggie Sottero Designs

Band: Nola Dukes Band

Floral: Billy Heroman's Flowers

Photography and Cinema: SB James Photography

Rentals and Design: August Events

Signage: Ettie Kim

You are Not the Shiz

Randi Fracassi

“You are not the shiz, we are all the shiz.”

Here I was, in a room full of amazing entrepreneurs and creatives attending a conference, people nodding and saying “YASSSS” in agreement to words of an idol of the wedding industry, and while we were all full of life and vigor with bright eyes and excitement, I couldn’t help but pause for a moment. Not because I was so incredibly blown away by what the speaker was saying or the message of being humble and kind she was giving, because it was clear in that moment that nearly none of these fellow attendees got it. This was further cemented when mere moments later, as we transitioned into the styled shoot portion of the day, and the same folks were downright nasty to each other to “get their shot”.

It left quite the impression on me, that’s for sure.

It’s hard, I get it. I know we’re all competing, fighting for the same client in the same area. We’re pricing each other out, complaining about those who both charge way too low and take away all of the customers and in the same breath criticizing those who charge more for “the same work”. We are constantly saying “Yes! Community! Helping people out!” while at the same time snarling at each other to get the shot.

And I would like to say that I’m above this kind of behavior, but the fact of the matter is, I’m not. I’m just as guilty and I hate that I am. And as someone who also does this, I think I can speak for the majority in that we don’t do this because it’s intentional; if anything, it’s because of a horrible trait called jealousy. And pride. And the desire to succeed and work with our dream clients and do all the things we want to that we think others are doing right in this second.

When it occurred to me what it was that I was doing, it was extremely humbling. I was a pot calling the kettle black, and I wasn’t ok with that; I pride myself on a “do as I say, not as I do” kinda person, and it really upset when I realized otherwise. So, what did I do (and to be honest, what am I still doing) to combat this?

I help my competition. Intentionally.

I offer advice, peeks into how I run my advertising, thoughts and feelings of going with the Knot over Wedding Wire (which, Louisiana folks, absolutely put those marketing dollars into the Knot! More of our couples use it click-for-click), and what my workflows are. I have made genuine, real friends with these folks, going to coffee and having a movie night outside of traditional networking events (that’s right, like how seriously everyone else hangs out with their friends). We’ve referred work to each other, and when in a pinch, called each other for help.

It’s acknowledging that yeah, your clients have the same budgets and styles and are amazing people, but for some reason no matter how you study or research it, they went with someone else. It’s realizing that for you, your business, you have your clients that love YOU and appreciate YOU, and they have theirs. And it’s ok to know that they more than likely inquired with them too. These competitors and other folks do great work and care for their clients as much as you do. That’s perfectly fine.

Above all else though, I humbled myself. Yeah, of course I want the money from a booking (making a living is a big part of why I do what I do). But I, and you too, have to look at the bigger picture. There are more moving parts even outside of the sphere of competition and knowing that everyone has their kind of client, and clients have their kind of vendor. In the weeks and days leading up to an event, there’s a coordinator/planner hunting contact info down and settling timelines for literally everyone while a photographer is planning out how to get the most out of their hours and stressing over how quickly they can process images, a specialty rental company seeing a $500 linen was torn last week and how to repair it as quickly as possible for this week. It’s a firm understanding that you are not the most important person in the grand scheme of it all.

I humbled myself by remembering that I am but a small part in the process. My competition is a small part. The vendor I don’t particularly care for is a piece too, and the one that is my best friends IRL. We all contribute to make a moment in time happen, to create a feeling that couples generally only experience once in their lifetime. Holy cow.

We make that happen. Our competition makes it happen. How incredibly amazing is it that folks found a calling, discovered that is a calling, and you can relate to them in this way?

As this speaker said, we’re all the shiz. We do some pretty awesome stuff. Coming together with a team of vendors, or as a “vendor category” as a whole, to make magic happen and be a part of creating lifetime memories. Reflect on this consciously, beat down that little green monster of envy, and make the effort to be intentional and genuine in creating relationships within the industry. Because y’all, at the end of the day, it truly does foster a better community and a better wedding day for couples.



Allison & Christopher | April 21, 2018

Randi Fracassi

When you know, you know. When Allison and Chris met during college, it was instant. A sweet girl from Louisiana, a bright eyed and down-to-earth boy from New York, a combination that lead them to New Orleans to celebrate the start of forever with laughter, dancing, and donuts (that's right here kids...if there's a better duo than Allison and Chris, it's Krispy Kreme and New York City policemen!). 

Captured so beautifully by Kaylie Martin of Kaylie Nicole Photography, and with floral and styling by Diane over at Fat Cat Flowers, their day was absolutely perfect. Cheers to many years, Allison and Chris! #WidmerTiesTheKnox



Photography: Kaylie Nicole Photography

Coordination: Poppy Lane Events

Ceremony Location: St. Louis Cathedral

Reception Location: Marche

Prep Location: Chateau LeMoyne

Floral Designer: Fat Cat Flowers

Entertainment: Luv Sexy Band & Kinfolk Brass Band

Beauty Team: Flawless Bride

Cake: Haydel’s Bakery

Donut Tree: Krispy Kreme Bakery

Invitations: Zazzle

Bridal Apparel: Allure Bridal at Ashley Renee Bridal